Are you in a relationship or about to enter one? Keep these things in mind so your relationship is built on a foundation of love that’s the right kind and not the wrong kind.

  1. Love grows someone; attachment smothers.
  2. Love has no ego; whereas attachment thrives on ego.
  3. Love is an emotion of strong attraction; attachment does not have to be reciprocal.
  4. Love is everlasting; attachment is transient.
  5. Love is forever; attachment is temporary.
  6. Love is security; attachment is an add-on or extension of a personality largely to impress. Unhealthy, so, “Bye!”
  7. Love is selfless; whereas attachment is always selfish.
  8. Love is unconditional; attachment is a need for someone to fill a void in one’s life. Not good. Say, “goodbye.”
  9. Love lets you trust and believe; attachment carries with it insecurities and uncertainty.
  10. Love liberates and frees; attachment controls.

What are your thoughts on love and attachment? Feel free to share them with me below.


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About Bart Smith, Founder

FIND THE ONE FOR ME author, Bart Smith, shares his outlooks on life, experiences, romantic philosophies, deep research and sharp observations in the areas of healthy, loving and happy relationships. His intent? To encourage every man and woman to have high levels of optimism that there REALLY IS SOMEONE out there for EVERYONE! He believes that with the right preparation and open communication, singles using the principles found inside FIND THE ONE FOR ME will be empowered with new dating skills and the art of finding the ONE for them to love and be loved.

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